Mad_Cyril Yeah, as Liqui says, you don’t have to use the kick drum to beat match, you can use all of the track, high hats, snare, toms etc. It is useful to hear though when you are bringing a track in, so either get some other headphones that pump the bass a bit more, or do what every professional DJ would do and just turn it right up until your eyes shake!
Don’t be afraid of the shitty commercial headphone though, they can be fine for use in the home.
Personally I’m a big fan of the mid range Sonys that come in just over the £100 mark, have used them at home and in big clubs and festivals and they are fine for DJing in most environments.