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The key to all this (diet, exercise etc.) is consistency and discipline. Finding a healthy diet and doing exercises you enjoy is important in the long run otherwise it’s to easy to quit and fall into old habits. Depending on your age, current weight and genetics simply cutting down on processed fats and sugars will see your weight drop off within a couple of months. And no matter what your age is do resistance training to maintain muscle and strength. Keep in mind that for most men the majority off fat is stored around the belly area so you won’t see major results in that area until later.

Would love to know when I’ll start remembering all the good times I had with my mum instead of those last few weeks of her life. I keep getting these flashbacks of her with tears in her eyes and being so frightened

    Dubman Everyone’s experience will be different, but it took me around a year to start being able to think back with happiness after my mum died…

      vinnyt77
      It’s been so hard the last few weeks with Christmas on its way. Just hoping after the New year the dark days will be less frequent

        IndustryStandard The fastest way to lose weight for me is a combination of keto, intermittent fasting, and fasted cardio in the morning. I can’t keep weight on with that routine, no matter how much I eat.

          Millsy ….but how do you keep energy levels up if you are fasting and exercising? Your body just taps into your fat stores and your body just gets used to doing that rather than relying on instant carbs?

            [unknown] correct. It takes a few weeks for your body to get used to using the stored fat instead of blood sugar as primary energy source while exercising, but once through that you’ll find higher energy levels during exercise and it has scientifically proven increases to cognition too. It’s hard to get going though, takes discipline and you have to tell yourself it’s perfectly natural for your stomach to rumble and to feel hungry. And breakfast is not the most important meal of the day. That was a Kelloggs slogan back in the 50s. I wonder why?

            Two meals a day and run 4 times a week.

            That’s the OLB way.

            You’re welcome!

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            Fasting sorted me out this year. I’m a convert.

            Between 2022 and 2024 I added 12kg for seemingly no reason (same diet etc) and I was already a little overweight.

            I saw found a video Diary of a CEO’s Most Replayed Moments of 2023 Roundup and the fasting discoveries piece came on by Dr. Mindy Pelz.

            I didn’t know about the other systems in our bodies that fasting activates / reinvigorates - I just thought it was about weight loss. I also didn’t realise there were ways to make it easy (what you eat going into a fast / taking electrolytes, adding MCT oil to coffee in the morning all makes it easy)

            The list of fasting benefits vary on the length of the fast but always start with at least 3 × 16 hour fasts if you haven’t done it before.

            i.e.

            • Eat by 8pm
            • Miss breakfast
            • Drink lots of water or black coffee or green tea, eat after 12pm next day)
            • Anything flavoured with artificial sweeteners etc accidentally kills your fast (your pancreas gets tricked into releasing insulin which is what we stop to get the benefit) - stick to boring unflavoured drinks and elecrolytes.

            Once you have done a few 16h fasts you can move onto the longer fasts depending on which benefits you want to explore.

            Some people just do 16 hour fasts for months and get good results - but eventually you will need to vary the lengths as your body gets used to them (the benefit reduces).

            Many people fast Monday to Friday and eat what they want on weekends. Don’t fall into the trap of ‘making up the food you missed’ as that negates the benefits - when you eat again to break your fast, have a drink with it and just eat a “normal sized meal”.

            Here are the fasting benefits depending on the length you do.

            The videos helped me get an understanding - and I would watch one or two of these before trying it so you don’t go in blind.

            I thought I would hate it but having started on a Friday/Saturday/Sunday to avoid doing it during work, I now comfortably do it at work (as do a bunch of us) and I genuinely love fasting!

            1. 6 Types of Fasting for different Health Goals.
            1. The Dark Side of Fasting

            2. 3 Warning signs you shouldn’t Fast

            3. 36 Hour Fasting — and How to

            4. 72 Hour Fast — How To

            5. The Worst Intermittent Fasting Mistakes

            If you don’t like the style of Dr. Mindy Pelz, you can try Dr. Jason Fung his approach is preferred by a doctor we know (but they ultimately say the same thing).

            Hope thats useful 🙂

            IndustryStandard .but how do you keep energy levels up if you are fasting and exercising? Your body just taps into your fat stores and your body just gets used to doing that rather than relying on instant carbs?

            When you have a few fasts behind you, you can easily exercise with as much / more energy as you are burning from Fat Stores instead of sugar which is actually very potent!

            Good summary that mate! I agree on mixing it up too as our bodies are great at adapting and then going fat storage mode, especially north of 40 years old. Fasted exercise really helps to keep the wolf from the door with that too.

            So you can have a black americano and water/electrolytes/green tea whilst on a fast? Nice.

            Suppose the initial step for me is to quit breakfast and crack on until lunchtime during the week …..whilst cutting down on shitty food/exercising etc

            Lads, have any of you tried living a little?

            You should try it!

              Smallman1 coming from the bloke who has 2 meals a day so is probably doing something similar to what everyone else is talking about!!

                Millsy I ended up getting gout for a few days, but lost about half a stone very quickly. I’ve whacked that right back on as I haven’t stopped munching pieces in the office!

                  RichM coming from the bloke who has 2 meals a day so is probably doing something similar to what everyone else is talking about!!

                  This is a reasonable and fair point!

                    Smallman1 I couldn’t do it personally as I love the combination of breakfast lunch and dinner every day!

                    Dubman I bet. I found the first of everything tough. First Christmas, birthday etc etc. I promise it gets better, but I don’t think there’s really anything you can do to accelerate grief.

                    I also don’t really buy into the idea that there’s 5 distinct stages to grief. I found I was feeling all sorts of shit all the time…

                    I realise that’s not a great pep talk. 😆