first, penalties have to go as a way of deciding the finals in any tournament. play golden goal after extra time.
second, the discussion with southgate doesn’t need to be binary. give him credit for getting the team as far as he did and let him take the criticism for what i thought was a really poorly managed game yesterday (the lack of early subs, not putting grealish on sooner, the penalty order was clueless). hopefully he learns from the experience, this is a young, promising group and could easily have won and should do well over the next few years.