Along_the_Wire
Thanks for clarifying.
Ukraine had made known that it intended to become an EU member in 2002 maybe? I think the EU said membership would take 10-20 years and have since said that it will eventually become a member of NATO but still aren’t. The irony is that, if anything, Putin’s paranoia and path to invading Ukraine actually made it an imperative that they did apply for EU membership and other countries like Finland have since become full NATO members. In other words, it became Putin’s self-fulfilling prophecy.
I think that is also the answer to your other point which is that yes, Russia engineered a situation that they knew would likely would prompt a certain response, but to then use the situation you created, as a reason to further escalate situation doesn’t justify or make their actions credible.