I’d probably split the holiday in two, one on the Russian side (morjim et al) for quieter more pristine beaches - maybe stay in one of those fancy beach tents or a nice Airbnb villas. La Plage (lovely French restaurant) for meals.
And then for a bit of hustle and bustle - Vagator, Anjuna, Baga - around those parts. You’ll want to do things like the Anjuna flea market with your daughter. Better to play it safe and do a 5 star there.
Your food choices are probably limited to what I would say is ‘safe’, but definitely put Gunpowder, Izumi, Larder And Folk, and Bomras on your to-dos. If my good friends have opened it by the time you’re there, check out Cafe Nola, I don’t say this lightly but the head chef is the best baker in India. If you want hardcore goan (thalis etc), I’ll give you another list.
Haven’t been in many years, so my info might be dated.