RichM holy shit, they’re the same bloke:
"Dear Uncle Eddie,
You always had a larger than life personality. I can remember you coming to many Casey family reunions and acting like one of the kids. You would jump in the Flemings pool and make all the cousins laugh. Another memory was many years later at Mike and my wedding. This memory was when you were dancing with my grandmother on the packed dance floor. You were both so full of life and maybe you are dancing together now.
I will hold onto these memories and also how you were such a fun uncle and great father to my cousins Ashley and Danielle. Your memory lives on in our heart Uncle Eddie. "