Along_the_Wire
Yep, that still literally sounds like ADHD. (It could be, not saying defo)
Anything shiny, instantly fun or urgent like gaming or socialising gets all the focus. Anything we āshouldā do, doesnāt, because thereās an issue with dopamine that gives us the feeling of reward for normal tasks.
Thereās a lot of cross over with symptoms of ADHD and autism and I try to understand autism as well. Just bear in mind that I am looking from an ADHD perspective.
Just because a parent doesnāt yet understand it or doesnāt want it to be something doesnāt mean the kid aināt got it.